Talking about your fetish, whether it be spanking or latex or other aspects of BDSM, with a cam model can feel a bit intimidating at first, but it’s a conversation worth having if you want to make your experience more enjoyable and personalized. The key to bringing up your fetish is to approach the topic with respect, openness, and clear communication. Tipping to have these discussions before going private is also a great way to lubricate the conversion.

Know the rules of the Cam Network

Before you dive right in to asking a cam model if she is willing to put a sex toy in her ass while singing happy birthday. Make sure the act is something that is allowed on the cam network the model is on. There are often moderators on the live cam networks that will ban your account or the model might just ban you from her room directly. If you don’t tip before making this request you might just find yourself booted from the models room.

Read The Cam Models Bio or statistics

If you take a brief moment to read a model's bio page, you will often find what sorts of fetishes and kinks they cater to. Oftentimes most models will list everything they are comfortable fulfilling. Fetish and kinks that are listed on a model's bio are also what is allowed on the network they are streaming on. So you won’t have to worry about breaking rules or offending the model you want to do your fetish show with.

Be Open and Direct with your Live Fetish Request

Once you’ve opened the door to the conversation, it’s best to be clear and direct about what you’re interested in. There’s no need to beat around the bush or use vague language. Many cam models are fetish friendly and if you have found them by using keywords or a sorting system like we offer on LemonCams, Then chances are they are very familiar with your fetish. being straightforward helps avoid any confusion and sets the stage for the sort of live fetish cam show you are looking for.

For example, if you’re into something like foot fetishes, you could say, “I have a foot fetish, and I was wondering if you’d be open to incorporating that into your shows, or maybe a private one?” By being clear about your interest, you give the model a better understanding of what you’re looking for and make it easier for them to respond.

Oftentimes you might get lucky and find a model who’s audience has the same fetish you do. So the model will oftentimes be doing a tip goal show that ends up with them doing a show themed to a fetish they are frequently requested to do. If this does not look like an option you can always tip to direct message the model and ask if they mostly do fetish and kink related shows in private or VIP Shows.